Pharmacist’s family back review into her murder at hands of controlling husband
Jessica Patel was strangled in 2018 by her gay husband, who wanted to cash in a £2m life insurance policy and start a new life with his boyfriend.
The family of a pharmacist who was killed by her gay husband, who wanted to start a new life in Australia with his lover, have urged people to open their eyes to abuse.
Jessica Patel’s family have backed a domestic homicide review (DHR) which has made recommendations about honour-based violence.
The 34-year-old was strangled at the marital home in Middlesbrough in May 2018 by her husband Mitesh, who tried to cover his tracks by staging a break-in, claiming an intruder must have murdered his wife.
Her family assisted in the painful DHR process to see if lessons could be learned.
After its publication, they said: “We hope this review will help other victims, those closest to them and the wider public to recognise the various forms and signs of abuse, and will remove any barriers, be it cultural or otherwise, to seeking help and getting the support they need.
“So that this act of evil is not repeated, we encourage everyone to open their eyes, to ask questions and never assume everything is OK.”
Mrs Patel was not well known to local agencies during her nine-year marriage.
The review made a number of recommendations, including making sure that messages about reporting domestic abuse, and looking for signs of it, are getting through to all communities.
Mieka Smiles, Middlesbrough Council’s executive member for culture and communities and chairwoman of the Community Safety Partnership, said: “Jessica’s family have suffered a great deal and we wish to express our sincerest condolences to them.
“We are also enormously grateful to them for their involvement in the review at such a difficult time.
“Their invaluable input has helped to paint a fuller picture of Jessica’s life, and gave her the voice – which was taken from her – to disclose the extent of abuse she suffered at the hands of her perpetrator.”
Trial judge Mr Justice Goss told Patel he only had pity for himself, and that his wife loved him and desperately wanted a family with him, but that he was only sexually attracted to men.
“She was lonely, often upset and controlled by you,” the judge told the killer.
