Dean of Guernsey would welcome no fault divorces

The Dean of Guernsey was speaking after Policy & Resources announced that the committee is seeking the public’s views on changes to the 1939 law, including the introduction of no fault divorces.

He welcomed the review, saying relationships need work and do not always succeed.

Many agencies, including

the local clergy, are willing to

assist couples when they find themselves in difficulties in their relationship.

‘But, sadly, the point will sometimes be reached where it is impossible to avoid the conclusion that the relationship has broken down irretrievably and that it is appropriate to seek judicial separation and eventually divorce.’

Given this reality of human experience, the Dean welcomed the proposal to reduce the possibility of conflict and further pain and distress to those who have to face the consequences of the breakdown of a relationship.

‘It is important that the legislation is inclusive and fair to both parties and that it is consistent and compliant with international standards,’ he added.

Torteval rector the Rev. Mark Charmley said as a vicar he has the joy of joining people together in marriage as they start their life-long commitment to each other.

‘Marriage is a serious commitment, and in the words of the Anglican service, “no one should enter into it lightly or selfishly but reverently and responsibly in the sight of almighty God”.

‘I know of no one when making the commitment of marriage looking ahead with the expectation of divorce, the hope is for a life-long union,’ he said.

In agreement with the Dean, Mr Charmley said marriage needs to be worked at, as with all relationships, and encouraged people to work through the difficulties.

‘Sometimes there is fault on the part of one or both people in terms of major issues like infidelity or domestic abuse and differences can become irreconcilable.

‘There are also times when there is no obvious fault, relationships break down irretrievably, and there comes a point when it’s no longer right for some marriages to continue.’

Divorce is therefore the right way forward sometimes, which is why he would be in favour of an amendment to the law.