Pride of Guernsey: 'For us, she's a godsend'
PROVIDING invaluable support to her parents by helping to look after her younger sister has earned Alicia Carter a nomination for the Pride of Guernsey Carer of the Year award.
Alicia, 17, was nominated by her parents for the Specsavers-sponsored award to recognise the tremendous effort she puts in to make sure sister Melody, 15, is happy and content.
Melody lives with autism and requires a great deal of care in her day-to-day life.
Mother Deb said Alicia's assistance helped make it possible for the family to enjoy quality time together.
'For us, she's a godsend,' she said.
'It's very difficult to have family time with a special needs child, but when we go out Alicia will always insist on looking after Melody.
'Alicia makes us feel like an ordinary family without a care in the world.
'They are very close and Alicia has the patience of a saint, because Melody's moods can change at the click of a finger, but for all the heartache we do have a lot of fun and laughter.'
Mrs Carter said Alicia understands Melody like no other and always helps her with the activities that she enjoys such as swimming, cookery and music.
She is equally aware of the certain triggers that upset Melody and how to avoid them.
For Alicia herself, her help is not a burden and she enjoys all the time she spends looking after her sister.
'My parents don't go out much, so I always volunteer to stay at home instead of going out with my friends,' she said.
'I love Melody and I wouldn't change her for anything, as long as she's happy then I'm happy too.'
Alicia has just celebrated her 17th birthday and was rewarded with her first driving lesson.
She is currently a student at the Grammar School Sixth Form Centre and is studying towards her A-levels.